The language of Christmas
Linda Soller | Dec 10, 2012
The other night I needed to exchange an item at my local Bed Bath & Beyond. I stood in a short line until I could leave the items I was returning with the clerk. I dropped the items off and headed to the back of the store to find the correct sizes. By the time I got back to the front the return/exchange line was considerably longer. A rule follower by nature, I quietly took my place in line and thought surely they could bring another clerk to help with exchanges. No sooner had the thought crossed my mind when another young woman appeared. Yes, now the line would move faster. When my turn came I quickly moved up to this same young woman and explained I was making an exchange. She smiled and stared at me. It was not a rude stare, it was a stare of great interest. I was pretty sure I didn’t know her, and then she leaned forward and said, “Those are great earrings, can I touch them?” I leaned in so she could see them closer. It just so happened I was wearing my favorite Christmas earrings that look like clear round ornaments with red centers. They are my favorites because they are festive, they were inexpensive, but mostly because they always get this sort of reaction. The next thing I knew, while she efficiently processed my exchange, we chatted about her search for Christmas earrings and how when you find special ones like these you should splurge on yourself. She was not dressed like someone who splurged very often on herself or anyone else.
We were speaking the language of Christmas. It is a language which knows no age, or race, or economic status. It is a special language that speaks to joy, caring, love, and peace. This young woman and I had very little in common. I doubt either of us would even notice each other on most days of the year. But on this particular evening we conversed like we were friends or neighbors. I noticed how carefully she did her work, and her nice smile. When my exchange was complete I said, “Thank you and Merry Christmas Alison.” She responded with a smile and said, “Awww, thank you!” It was such a sincere response. The language of Christmas was working its usual magic on us both. They say the best way to learn a language is to immerse yourself in that language. Have you spoken Christmas today?
Have a great week :o) Linda
